During the course of my life I’ve encountered a lot of
amazing people. Those I could talk to for hours, those I traveled with, those
who impacted my life in personal levels, and those who became part of the inner
circle.
Since I’m a very nostalgic person, sometimes I like to trace these
relationships back to where they started; hoping to find a similar pattern that
could teach me something about myself! It
doesn’t always work that way! Not all these people have similar background; in
fact, most of them don’t even share the same interests with me, and strangely enough,
not all of them were able to make a good impression on me when we first met! But
what almost applies to all of them is that as I took the step, invested time,
and got to know these people I started to find amazing things about their
personalities, life styles, experiences, and their dreams which brought us
closer to each other.
I often ask
myself, how my life would have looked like if I hadn’t invested in knowing a
certain friend or acquaintance. The answer sometimes scares me!
Mother Teresa says: “if you judge people, you will have no
time to love them.”
I’ve been guilty of doing this in numerous cases myself. In fact,
it’s still an area that I’m struggling with, but what hurts me the most is when
other people hate me as a result of a misunderstanding, or judging the outcome of
an inside emotion or thought without knowing what has caused it in the first
place.
Being hated is probably one of the most painful experiences anyone can
face. Most people try to ignore it. There are thousands of those inspiring
quotes online that suggest moving on, or thinking of the person who has judged
you as nothing, or as an invaluable individual with a poisoned thinking, but what
if that person is not a total stranger? What if you’ve been misunderstood or
disliked by someone you really care about? How are we supposed to handle that? Should
we just accept that nothing can be done, and move on? Or ……….. is there really
a solution? Can we force someone to invest into knowing us?!
These are some thoughts that even occupy a mind of a traveler.
Sometimes you just leave, because the time has come; sometimes you leave
because there is nothing left to stay for; but sometimes you live with a BIG
HOPE in your heart. Hopping that one day you can come back!
Sometimes you leave a country, sometimes a city, sometimes
someone’s heart…
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